I think direct communication is key, so if I tell my husband that I need four minutes to rejuvenate, there’s no issue. Boundaries! They are so important for functionality in every relationship, including my relationship with myself. My boundaries allow me to know that those around me, even though connected spiritually, that we are separate beings and that we benefit from having those boundaries. The most important boundary is making time for myself. Prior to having my son, a friend told me that I would have to become friends with the emotion of guilt, which I have! I balance that guilt with the time I need for myself. This way I can be available for my son when he needs me.